Housework arguments are almost never about the housework — they are about the invisible half nobody wrote down. This lists all of it, including the noticing and organising, splits it explicitly, and puts a review in before resentment does the job instead.
Free on any plan. You will see this list again in the app, and nothing is created until you press install.
Written down, including the half nobody counts.
Including noticing, remembering and booking.
Reviewed on a schedule, before resentment does it instead.
Noticing that something needs doing, remembering when, booking it, and holding the list in your head is real work. It is rarely shared evenly and it appears on no normal chore chart.\n\nA written list makes it countable, and most of the disagreement disappears once both people are looking at the same one.
The admin that has no deadline until suddenly it does, given somewhere to live.
Room by room with a decision rule agreed in advance, and a route out of the house.
Scope, quotes and a contingency agreed before anybody starts knocking anything down.
Room by room over a month, so it is never a whole weekend and never all at once.
It takes one press. Everything it creates is tagged, so if it turns out not to suit you, it is easy to find and remove together.
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